"I'd Unschool, but my kids would play video games all day..."
This is another unfounded "complaint" I receive when I tell other parents that we are Unschoolers. Silly complaint, since real learning comes whilst playing video games. I can't get my kids to play enough. ;) When kids are given the freedom to follow their passions, their lives become very well rounded naturally. Passionate lives thrive when seemingly unlimited time can be given to an interest. Remember the last time you had a new, exciting interest? Didn't it consume your mind? This is good - fantastic actually! This can make it temporarily look like that thing is the only thing that a person is doing, but this is not how things pan out over time. Just like a well balanced diet can best be seen over the course of a few days, a well balanced life can best be seen that way as well.
Don't forget that if your family is new to Unschooling, you'll all need time to Deschool. Please do not forget this step, as it is the most essential step there is to fully comprehending what Unschooling is all about and how it can help your entire family reach their full potential in life.
Still freaked out about video games? Check out these:
- Discover Magazine has Steven Johnson's article "Your Brain on Video Games"
- LivingJoyfully has Pam Laricchia's "Everything I Need to Know I Learned from Video Games" (Check out the references at the end, they are very interesting)
- Steven Johnson's book, Everything Bad is Good For You
My family's current favorite online sites with games:
- Webkinz (This is a wonderful online virtual pet website, buy the stuffed animal then enjoy the benefits of this amazing online world. I've checked out several imitative sites, and as of today none compare to Webkinz in quality.)
- Sand Game (This highly fun game is a perpetual favorite here. We had to try some of the combinations in real life. Check out the theme song, it's amazing!)
- Line Rider (There are many fan video clips on YouTube. There is also a really cool Line Rider Fan Site.)
- PBS Kids
- American Girl (We love the Mancala game in the Addy section.)
- Groovy Girls
My family's current favorite regular video games:
Still not getting along with your older child? Here are some additional parenting resources that I've gotten a lot out of. For best results, read them before your child is "older".

The Teenage Liberation Handbook
Grace Llewellyn

Guerrilla Learning
Grace Llewellyn

Parent-Teen Breakthrough
Mira Kirshenbaum
Labels: empowerment, games, mindful parenting, unschooling



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